Why am I passionate about this?

I strive to help children not only accept but also celebrate their own uniqueness. For a long time, we were told that same-sex relationships and gender non-conformity were not natural because they don’t occur in animals. When I began to research same-sex behavior in animals, I learned this couldn’t be further from the truth. Same-sex behaviors have been found in almost every species that has been extensively studied. I knew I could create a fun, gentle, child-friendly introduction to these concepts that challenges the notion that LGBTQ+ behaviors are unnatural. 

I have a Master's in biology with a focus on conservation through storytelling.


I wrote...

Love in the Wild

By Katy Tanis ,

Book cover of Love in the Wild

What is my book about?

Love in the Wild celebrates the diversity of love in the animal kingdom. With simple rhyming text and bold, colorful…

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The books I picked & why

Book cover of And Tango Makes Three

Katy Tanis Why I love this book

I grew up in NJ, so I visited the Central Park Zoo as a child.

I still remember when I first learned about Silo and Roy adopting Tango. Who knew such a sweet story would turn into one of the most banned books of the last two decades?

I still get teary-eyed when reading this heart-warming story. I’ve been hoping for years that they would create a follow-up story about Tango, who grew up and cared for an egg with another female penguin!

I suspect that this book has inspired the many zookeepers around the world who now give other same-sex penguin couples a chance to adopt eggs. 

By Justin Richardson , Peter Parnell , Henry Cole (illustrator)

Why should I read it?

3 authors picked And Tango Makes Three as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it. This book is for kids age 4, 5, 6, and 7.

What is this book about?

One of the six political books for kids you should definitely read according to Zoe Williams in the Guardian, November 2018!

Roy and Silo are just like the other penguin couples at the zoo - they bow to each other, walk together and swim together. But Roy and Silo are a little bit different - they're both boys.

Then, one day, when Mr Gramzay the zookeeper finds them trying to hatch a stone, he realises that it may be time for Roy and Silo to become parents for real.


Book cover of Love Makes a Family

Katy Tanis Why I love this book

This is almost the direct human counterpart to my book Love in the Wild, even starting with the same “Love is…” It celebrates love through everyday acts of kindness, compassion, and togetherness.

The book highlights diverse families through the illustrations only, as there is no need to mention different types of families in the text. It doesn’t matter who is in a family because it is love that makes a family a family.

By Sophie Beer ,

Why should I read it?

2 authors picked Love Makes a Family as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

This fun, inclusive board book celebrates the one thing that makes every family a family . . . and that's LOVE.

Love is baking a special cake. Love is lending a helping hand. Love is reading one more book. In this exuberant board book, many different families are shown in happy activity, from an early-morning wake-up to a kiss before bed. Whether a child has two moms, two dads, one parent, or one of each, this simple preschool read-aloud demonstrates that what's most important in each family's life is the love the family members share.


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Book cover of Pinned

Pinned by Liz Faraim,

“Rowdy” Randy Cox, a woman staring down the barrel of retirement, is a curmudgeonly blue-collar butch lesbian who has been single for twenty years and is trying to date again.

At the end of a long, exhausting shift, Randy finds her supervisor, Bryant, pinned and near death at the warehouse…

Book cover of Families Can

Katy Tanis Why I love this book

I adore Brooke Smart’s illustrations, which bring this sweet rhyming text to life.

This book highlights not only the diversity of families but also the different activities families may enjoy doing together, like going to the beach, cartwheeling down the hall, staying in and playing games, or dancing to old jams with grandpa.

By Dan Saks , Brooke Smart (illustrator) ,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Families Can as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it. This book is for kids age 1, 2, 3, and 4.

What is this book about?

A family can be

Any kind of number

Maybe there's one parent

Strong like thunder

This charmingly heartfelt board book is for families: families who cook together and families who sing together, families with lots of members and families with a special few, families who live together and families who live separately - for all families. Celebrate the differences that make each family unique and the similarities and love that connect us all together.


Book cover of The Family Book

Katy Tanis Why I love this book

I enjoyed the mix of humans and animals to demonstrate “there are lots of different ways to be a family.”

Child-like drawings of humans highlight diversity by straying away from realistic representations of skin color and instead using a range of bright colors like pink, orange, purple, and yellow.

The animal families add humor to the story, making it more playful and enjoyable for the child reader. By treating human and animal families the same, it also subtly reminds us that we are part of the larger animal family, extending the concepts of empathy and compassion towards all beings, human and animal.

By Todd Parr ,

Why should I read it?

2 authors picked The Family Book as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it. This book is for kids age 4, 5, 6, and 7.

What is this book about?

Some families have two moms or two dads. Some families have one parent instead of two.
Some families live in a house by themselves. Some families share a house with other families.
All families can help each other be strong!

The Family Book celebrates families and all the different varieties they come in. Whether they're big or small, look alike or different, have a single parent or two, Todd Parr assures readers that every family is special in its own unique way.


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Book cover of Pinned

Pinned by Liz Faraim,

“Rowdy” Randy Cox, a woman staring down the barrel of retirement, is a curmudgeonly blue-collar butch lesbian who has been single for twenty years and is trying to date again.

At the end of a long, exhausting shift, Randy finds her supervisor, Bryant, pinned and near death at the warehouse…

Book cover of All Kinds of Families

Katy Tanis Why I love this book

With the humor of the Langs' beloved Grumpy Monkey series, anthropomorphized animals show us “all kinds of families”.

A two-dad chicken family, a single-mom octopus, a great-grandma turtle, bunny cousins, a Boynton-esque hippo family with too many pets, a robot butler, and more show us loving each other makes a family a family.

By Suzanne Lang , Max Lang (illustrator) ,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked All Kinds of Families as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

From the creators of the picture-book sensation Grumpy Monkey comes a hilarious celebration of families of all stripes!

Lots of nontraditional family structures are celebrated in this super-fun and super-accessible board book! Kids will love finding their own family represented, no matter if they have two moms, one grandpa, or just a cousin named Doug.

The brilliant creative team behind Grumpy Monkey wanted a simple book they could use to talk with their kids about the different kinds of families they would encounter in the world--so they made this! A silly and positive introduction to open-mindedness and all kinds of…


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Love in the Wild

By Katy Tanis ,

Book cover of Love in the Wild

What is my book about?

Love in the Wild celebrates the diversity of love in the animal kingdom. With simple rhyming text and bold, colorful drawings, young children adore this book. Familiar activities like peekaboo and holding hands allow parents and children to play along as they read. Kids love finding the hidden hearts on every page.

The book features stories of adoption, acceptance, child care, and bonding. The content is well-researched and based on scientists' observations. There is a corresponding field guide available on the publisher's website for more details on each animal’s story.

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